DEAR DEIDRE: READING saucy messages from my husband to a woman colleague was awful – and it got even worse when I saw what he thought about me.According to him she is “stunning”, while I “look like I’ve just got out of bed”.He wants to take her to bed all day long, while he never wants to touch me.
And, the most hurtful, she makes him feel good, while he finds me “repulsive”.Like most other married couples, our sex life has slowed down but I thought he was happy with me.We are both in our late-40s and have been married for 26 years.
I don’t dress up all the time but I do make an effort when we go out and I still exercise regularly.I was so upset after seeing the constant stream of flirty — and personally insulting — messages that I confronted my husband.Rather than apologise, or ask for forgiveness, he’s told me not to be so nosey and even accused me of being overly sensitive.
He insisted I was making a big drama out of nothing and they were simply friendly workmates.He did tell me he would delete the messenger app they were talking on, but I’ve been checking regularly and it’s still there.Not only that, the flirty messages are continuing.
I don’t know if they have cheated in real life but even if they haven’t it feels as if they are building up to that. READ MORE FROM DEAR DEIDREDEAR DEIDREI'm worried my husband and his daughter are sexually attracted to each otherDEIDRE'S STORIESSue finds out about Rachel after Macy steps in and meddlesThe lates.
